The Love Dare

I saw the movie Fireproof last night. Some friends had talked about the movie a few months ago, and suggested that it I'd like it. It must be fairly popular, because it lasted weeks on my Netflix queue before it became available. The story is about a young couple on the brink of divorce. They've fallen into a pattern of arguing, bitterness and resentment. They're talking, rather yelling, that it's time to divorce. The man's father asks him to wait 40 days before signing the papers. He sends the man a book called The Love Dare. In short, it's 40 days of dares for you to complete. Dares to look at and treat your spouse differently. It's about stepping back and changing yourself, not focusing on changing your partner. The author's position is that "love is a decision, not a feeling. As often is the case, after years in a relationship, couples complain about losing the "spark". The Love Dare challenges you to think differently about love. Although it's Bible based, I think the message transcends those who identify themselves as Christians. If you're looking for a way to reconnect with your partner, I'd give it a try.

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